Saturday, March 31, 2007
Green Dust
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Religion and Politics
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I thought a lot about this for quite a while. Then, a second email from my minister arrived indicating that the previous email must have struck a nerve with some members of the congregation:
I began to mull this over in earnest. I came to the conclusion that we are a Christian church in a democracy. Whether or not I agree with someone else's thoughts and words, it is my responsibility to be informed; I need to look at all sides of an issue. When doing so, I always come back to considering how Jesus would view the situation, what Jesus would say in response. Why? Because my faith is firmly rooted in the teachings of Jesus. How could my faith be rooted in one thing and my moral code be rooted in something else?
During the run-up to the invasion of Iraq, every time I heard the issue of weapons of mass destruction discussed, I wanted to scream, "WHO HAS THE MOST WEAPONS OF MASS DESTRUCTION? WHO IS THE ONLY COUNTRY THAT HAS USED NUCLEAR WEAPONS?" Why can WE have WMDs, but "THEY" can't? (In this case "they" can be any other country.)
Why is it so easy to see the sins of others while ignoring our own transgressions? Why shouldn't our moral code be tied to our religion? How can the USA always be right no matter what our sins? The number of American lives that have been lost in Iraq is a tragedy as are the hundreds of thousands of innocent Iraqis who have died. Think if we Americans and our government were innocent, falsely accused and then invaded by a foreign power. Then our babies and grandmothers began to die in hordes as the bombs fell and the bullets flew. How would WE feel?
Does the USA have the right to bully other countries or to kill innocent victims? Do we have the right to say who can and cannot have nuclear power? No wonder most of Europe is disgusted with us.
Before this war began, I marched in a peace demonstration in Blacksburg. My humble sign said, "You reap what you sow." Think of what our harvest will be...then weep.
Tuesday, March 20, 2007
Keeping Busy
Each year I am part of a team that is responsible for organizing a summer camp for gifted students. The camp is the culmination of our graduate students' four-course sequence in gifted education and provides them with a practicum experience. There are hundreds of details and it takes an entire year to get everything ready. In fact, the week after camp ends we begin planning for the next year. One of the biggest jobs is evaluating the units that our graduate students will teach during camp. The focus is on providing rigorous experiences for the gifted children, ones they will not have in the classroom. As part of the third course, our graduate students create the units. My colleagues and I spend two days going through each unit with a fine toothed comb. Each unit must be reviewed by two of us, but independently.
I know that our students put forth much effort in creating the units, so I believe I owe it to them to put forth much effort in the evaluation process. This is how I have spent my last two days. It is a monumental task and part of my job, so I am not complaining. However, I am glad this task is finished for this year!
Seder Meal
I am now heading up a committee at church and it is my duty to ensure that the Seder Meal comes off without a hitch. This is a learning process for me as I never have been responsible for purchasing, preparing, serving, and cleaning up for a large room full of people. There is a good reason why I am not a caterer! However, I do have a fine group of hard working people on my committee so I believe we can pull this off without a hitch. Here's the email I received from the minister:
So, that's what a Seder Meal is all about!
Sunday, March 18, 2007
Justifying My Existence

I am not a procrastinator ... 99.9% of the time. However, I could not bring myself to tackle my Consolidated Annual Report--which is due tomorrow--until I returned from Spring Break. It took me about seven hours to complete it (basically all day), and I hated every moment of it. So, you may ask, why am I not proud to see in writing all that I accomplished in my job at ECU over the last year? For one thing, I am not ego driven, so having to "brag" about my accomplishments grates on my nerves. Then, the form is a bit confusing. Where do I put my work on the Editorial Board for Five Ponds Press? Does it go in Service or in Pedagogical Materials? I can make a case for either or both. The entire process is detailed and nitpicky. BUT! It is done! Hooray!! I do not have to do this for another year. That said, I have learned a good lesson. I need to work on this sucker almost every day so that next year it will be mostly done when it is time to work on it. This means I have to keep an electronic log of every collaborative session, every student I meet with, every word I write, every advisee I help to register, and so on. This will save me having to go back through my calendar day by day for the past year. Now, can I make myself do it? I hope so. So what would keep me from taking the painless route? Probably the same thing that kept me from fulfilling my promise to dispose of at least one thing I own every single time I bring in something new.
Saturday, March 17, 2007
If it Can Happen in Bucolic Riner, Virginia, it Can Happen Anywhere

The following is a lead story on cnn.com. Read it and weep.
RINER, Virginia (AP) -- Two teens were charged with conspiracy to commit murder after one of them allegedly took a gun to school and at least one discussed shooting the principal and others, authorities said.
The boys, ages 14 and 15, were taken into custody Friday, said Lt. Brian Wright of the Montgomery County sheriff's office.
He said another student told sheriff's Deputy Kirk Hendricks, Auburn Middle School's resource officer, that the boys had a gun. "He probably saved some lives," Wright said.
Officers found a .22-caliber revolver and an undisclosed amount of ammunition, but it was not clear who the gun belonged to or how the boy obtained it, Wright said. He would not say where the gun was found. No shots were fired.
"We take this seriously, and the fact that we found a gun and ammo means this wasn't just talk," Wright said.
According to a preliminary investigation, at least one of the boys talked about plans to shoot Hendricks, Principal Guylene Wood-Setzer and at least one student, Wright said. Authorities would not say why the three were allegedly targeted.
The boys' names were withheld because they are minors. The 15-year-old was also charged with taking a gun onto school property and possession of a firearm by someone under 18.
Wood-Setzer declined to comment.
The school has 291 students in grades six through eight.
Riner is in southwestern Virginia, about 30 miles southwest of Roanoke.
Thursday, March 15, 2007
Renewal
Last night I went with Judy B. to Martha Ann Stallings' house to meet with my old book group, "Reading Between the Wines". It was so good to see all my old friends and to catch up with all the goings on. Barbara Erdyle was there as was Carol Kahler; both are school principals and good people. Rochelle was there, too. I can't put a last name for dear Rochelle as she does not have one. She went to court and had her name legally changed to Rochelle--no middle or last name--a la Cher or Madonna. I love these dear women. What a good time I had.
This morning I arose fairly early, got dressed and went out to attend to business. My first stop was ODB where I had a lovely cup of coffee and a cranberry muffin. As I sat sipping my coffee I perused a copy of today's Roanoke Times. I bought Brenda Wojo a loaf of Portuguese Sweet Bread and another of Lemon Poppyseed. When I still worked for MCPS, Brenda was our administrative assistant. At times I would bring her a loaf of bread and she always loved it--so much, in fact, that she'd immediately open the bread and treat herself to a slice. I also bought a jar of apple butter "handmade in a copper kettle in Troutville" for me and one for Terry and Stephen. After all, when my girls come to visit I have to make fried apple pies. Grocery store apple butter just doesn't do it. I also bought T & S a pound of Mountain Mud coffee, a dozen scones, and two loaves of bread, the same kind I bought for Brenda. When Terry and Stephen lived in Blacksburg, they loved ODB scones, so whenever I can I take them a dozen.
My next stop was the NBB where I had a bit of business to attend to. Then I traversed the "Michael Vick Highway" over to Christiansburg where I met with Sharon Zuckerwar (Sharon now has the position I had when I left MCPS) to discuss a project I am doing for Five Ponds Press. We had a good time talking about "old times" and chuckling about the Teaching American History grant that she submitted last evening. The TAA grant that I received is coming to an end and the group heading it up decided to go for another one. God bless Melissa Lisanti.
I arrived home and met Dottie for a trip to Roanoke. It was just like old times. Dottie drove into Roanoke via Rt. 11, her preferred route. First we went to Crystal Spring to Martinique where Dottie purchased a gift for her ailing brother-in-law. We then headed over to The Forum where we wandered around the shops. The snotty woman in E. I. Randall got on my last nerve and that is the last time I will go into that shop. Things change quickly in strip malls where there are local businesses. The gift shop was gone and a shoe store was in its place. Other shops had closed, too. Next we zipped downtown to The Market and walked around our old haunts. First, of course, we parked in our usual spot. Things were pretty much the same, but a new shoe store has sprung up next to La Di Dah. About 4:30 we wandered over to Frankie's where Dottie treated me to French martinis. Yum. At 5:00 we left Frankie's and went directly across the street to my favorite restaurant in the entire world. Alexander's, as always, was tres magnifique. We even got to sit in at our favorite table in the window. The food was divine as always. Oh, I do love to see my teeth prints in the Plugra butter on the dinner bread (made in the bakery on The Market) after I've taken my first bite. Dinner with Dottie at Alexander's made this entire trip worth every mile I drove to get here.
So, I have truly had A GRAND DAY OUT, just like Wallace & Gromit did ... no BETTER than their day out. After I catch up on email I will go to bed so that I can arise early, close up the house, and make my way back to the Green City. I am renewed in a way that is ultimately refreshing. Southwest Virginia is where I belong. Thank you, God, for this little slice of Heaven called Blacksburg. There is no place like it in the world.
Wednesday, March 14, 2007
Spring Break Part II (Part I is below.)
I arrived back home and Skyped Paul. Harry was there puttering about the house and he told Paul to ask me if he and Steven Winter could come over for a visit. I immediately thought of Ann Roberts and how she and Harry adore each other. I know she'll be excited when I tell her. I'm not sure if Harry wants to come visit me in North Carolina, but if he wants to see me I guess that's where he will come. I've been trying to think of places to take him and so far all I've come up with are New Bern, Beaufort, and Atlantic Beach. I'll have to cogitate on this.
My next appointment was at 12:10 at Shaker's with the Sisterhood. Yes, we were all back together again--Brenda Wojo, Brenda Brand, Judy Barylske, Bette Kreye and ME! Wow! What a wonderful time we had. Brenda Brand told me that Virginia Tech will soon be hiring someone to teach elementary social studies and that I should consider the job. I explained that I can't work for Tech and also that I need to finish two more years in North Carolina. Brenda wanted to know why I can't work for Tech. When I explained about my retirement, she said that Tech has the TIAA Cref option. This could be good news. I'll have to check with VSRS to make sure that my Virginia retirement income would not be affected. After all, I'd hate to have to pay back five years of retirement! Brenda said she felt certain I would be hired. This is certainly something to think about.
I must end this for now because Connie Joyce and Barbara Stepp are coming over to see me before I leave with Judy to go to Marth Ann Stalling's house for the book group meeting. Yes, I've been invited back to "Reading Between the Wines".
Stay tuned ... more later.
Happy Days are Here Again!
Knoxville (Left over from the 1982 World's Fair)Frankly, Spring Break should come more often. What a treat it has been to get away. My first stop was Knoxville, Tennessee where I stayed with my sister, Susan. Sister Robin arrived that evening and we had family time which included good ole Mom & Dad. On Saturday my sisters and I fulfilled one of my mother's greatest desires--we accompanied her to a DAR meeting and agreed to join. All I have to do is to remember to find my birth certificate when I get home, scan it and send it along to Dad. The key word is remember. I also spent a few days in Harriman visiting with Mother and Dad and sealing and freezing the food that I had brought. This is the best picture of Harriman that I could find and it is too tiny to see much. Besides, Harriman is not quite as bucolic as this photo would have you believe.

Dad is so conflicted about Mother's condition. First he told me that it is a good thing I came to visit Mother because her heart will give out soon. A few minutes later he said that Mother is doing so well that she is getting better. It is a sad sight to see one's mother as a deaf and partially blind invalid who does little more than sleep each day. My dear mother has always been meticulous in her appearance and seeing her with long fingernails that need attention is hard to bear. A home health worker comes in once or twice a week to help Mother with her personal needs, but Mother's fingernails are so thick and tough that they probably need tending to with professional instruments doctors have for dealing with this type of problem. Losing Mother will be extremely difficult, but seeing her as she is now is also heart wrenching. She will enter her 90th year this April and has lived a long and productive life. I am so glad that she and Dad traveled the world before she became too ill to do so.
Virginia
I left Tennessee with a heavy heart and arrived in Blacksburg late Tuesday afternoon.
Dottie and I had already made plans to go out for the evening and it was a tonic to see her. Our first stop was the Cellar where I had a bowl of excellent soup and an order of garlic bread. M-m-m-m--m-m-m. Parking in Blacksburg is always a problem, but we found a spot directly in front of the restaurant. After we ate we crossed Main Street and walked down College Avenue to the Lyric Theater. Words cannot adequately express how it felt to once again sit in the Lyric Theater anticipating the start of a movie. All of the same old ads played over and over again--Dr. Jacobs, Big Al's, etc.--and though I've been gone almost three years, the ads have not been updated. Frankly, this was comforting. Dottie and I watched "The Last King of Scotland", a gut wrenching movie. We left the theater feeling drained. As we were walking back to the car I asked Dottie if we could drive around the drill field for old time's sake. She was amenable and enthusiastically took me on a little tour of my home town. We headed down Main Street and passed the two big eyesores that have, for me, ruined the downtown area. Blacksburg is a small town and does not need big city ways like parking garages and "luxury" apartments atop retail establishments. Dottie said the apartments were trucked in from North Carolina and sat on property near Colony Park until the structures were hoisted into place above the shops. I did notice one shop called "Alligator Alley" so the monstrosity has at least one redeeming feature. Next we went to see the Bennett House and the little ecologically designed park that surrounds it. Years ago I had been to a Halloween party in this lovely old domicile. Dottie told me that Blacksburg has joined 200 other cities in the USA that are combating global warming. Dear Dottie even got to drive her little Prius in a Prius parade downtown in celebration of the town's commitment. We then drove around the drill field and I got tears in my eyes. We went around the duck pond and then around the drill field for a second time. Yeah, that's a bit dorky, but you cannot imagine how it feels to be back in a place of sanity. Here are a few photos of my little corner of Heaven.
For good reason I am superstitious that Blogger will crash before I post this, so I am going to go ahead and hit the "Publish" button before that happens. I'll continue this later...
Thursday, March 8, 2007
Preparation
Packing will be the next chore after the cookies. I'll be gone for a week, so have a lot to pack including my laptops and assignments to grade. The weather in Tennessee will be spring-like but Blacksburg will be nippier. Today I found out that a movie I have been waiting and waiting for will be playing at the Lyric!! On Tuesday night I'll go with Dottie to see "The Last King of Scotland". I hope it's as good as "Amazing Grace" which I saw last weekend and is the best movie I have seen in a long time. I guess I'm a typical American because I always pack too much junk that I end up not needing. I always convince myself that some emergency could arise and I might need this or that. The truth is I lug a bunch of junk that I do not need. So what if I get a run in a pair of hose? I can always buy a pair which is far more sensible than packing half a dozen. Now, I'm off to find the directions Paul sent me about how to make my house livable while I am there. When he left he did a lot of shutting down which I much appreciate. I had the two-page lists of things to do on Tuesday but now I can't find it. ARGH!
Wednesday, March 7, 2007
Words of Wisdom from the Ole Raggedy Boy Himself


To say that I am excited about my upcoming travels is an understatement. Ole Neil's words sum it up:
Are you Ready for the Country?
Slipping and sliding and playing domino.
Lefting and then righting; it's not a crime you know.
You gotta' tell your story, boy, before it's time to go.Are you ready for the country because it's time to go?Are you ready for the country because it's time to go?
Everybody Knows this is Nowhere
I think I'd like to go
back home
And take it easy
There's a woman that I'd like to get to know living there. Everybody seems to wonder What it's like down here
I gotta get away from this day-to-day running around, Everybody knows this is nowhere.
Everybody, everybody knows. 
Everybody knows.
Every time I think about back home
It's cool and breezy
I wish that I could be there right now
Just passing time.
Everybody seems to wonder What it's like down here
I gotta get away from this day-to-day running around, Everybody knows this is nowhere.
Everybody, everybody knows
Everybody knows.
Blacksburg, here I come!




Ah, yes...breakfast at Gillile's--Chappie's Choice, of course...Barbecue at Mike's--real barbecue, not the vinegary mess they serve here and have the nerve to call barbecue...
Whatever movie is playing at the Lyric...
Dinner at Alexander's--Plugra butter, natch...
Garlic bread and soup at the Cellar...
AND
A nighttime drive around the drill field. Heck, I may circle it six or more times...
Monday, March 5, 2007
Random Thoughts

In a little over a week I'll be back where my heart is--Blacksburg!
Today I went to a presentation by one of the five finalists for the position of dean of our college. She opened by using the "word", ecstatical. She went on to talk about "welding a big stick". HIDE ME!
Is anyone else but me perplexed and offended by the term "friendly fire"? How the hell can a bullet coming directly at me be friendly?
When Paul moved to England, he had all his mail forwarded to me in North Carolina. Today I found a postcard for Paul in my mailbox. The label said this:
EXPIRED
Paul Mather
207 Gates Drive
Winterville, NC 24060
That's a pretty odd way to learn that someone has died, eh? Well, Paul didn't die, but his membership in the Lyric Council did. P.S. The zip code on the card is for Blacksburg. Go figure.
I paid a bill to Physicians East last month. The check came back. The envelope said that the address to which I sent the bill was wrong. So, when a new invoice arrived today telling me that my account is past due, I checked the address to see where to send the bill. Of course it's the same address that I used when I sent the last bill. ARGH! As Tony Matusevich (bless his soul) used to say, "I don't mind paying for my own mistakes, but I'll be damned if I'm going to pay for yours." In the last month I have lost count of how many of OTHER PEOPLE'S mistakes I have had to pay for. And the price I have had to pay is in a commodity I can least afford--MY TIME!
Taxes. INCOME taxes. I owe a pile to NC, but I'm getting a pile back from Virginia and a pittance back from the feds. All in all, I can't complain because I am coming out a wee bit ahead this year. I guess paying all that quarterly tax paid off.
Well, my get up and go has got up and went as they say in the majestic mountains of SW Virginia so Th-th-th-that's all folks!







